The first sight

first impression. it is a something which is extremely tricky. because, one would judge a person even before you really know the person. and really, never judge a book by its cover for it would be unfair to the person. but then again, there is nothing in this world that is fair.

when you get to know a person, it is indeed important that first impression does matter. however, one should at least spend some effort to get to know and understand someone better. because it would be bad if you were to judge someone off quickly. it wouldn;t be nice. of course i would have to agree that it happens and there;s nothing you can do about it. it still depends on someone if one decides to spend effort in getting to know you.

but to get to know someone takes a tremendous effort on one part. every person has a unique character and it has its dept. you can never understand the rationale behind a persons actions until you can understand his character. however of course, if it happens that you cannot understand the rationale depsite the fact you quite understand his character, then this would be a classic case of a character clash.

if one is sincere in knowing someone, then take the effort and understand the person. give chances and provide opportunity. if you are lucky, you;ll find a good friend among the crowd. if you are not so lucky, of course then it would be sad. but take precaution. but time is an important factor. time plays an enormous part in everything.

what do you think?