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why do friends quarrel? why do father and sons fight? why do couples argue? i think most of the time friction occurs due to conflict of interests. it is because each has their own viewpoints and cannot see what is common.

more importantly, i usually think why there is friction is because of lack of understanding.

when a father scolds the son, the son will naturally think his father doesn;t understand him. but when the sons talk back, the fathers will feel that their own sons don;t understand the main reason why he was scolding his own son in the first place.

thus, when there is mutual understanding, conflicts will not rise to a breaking point. there is always a bigger picture at the end of the day.

next time before you doubt anyone, or get into a conflict with anybody, think if you had considered the bigger picture, or are you still looking at your own picture?

the world does not revolve around you.

what do you think?