the cynical one

Saturday, February 04, 2006

On the way

One must move on. we can;t all stay in the same position forever. things change, people change, times have change and change in the only constant. in this complicated and competative and realistic society you have to move on and do what you are supposed to do in order to survive. frankly speaking, i don;t even think anyone would give a damn whether or not you are dead or alive. if you are alive, then carry on. if you are dead, they would just simply find someone to replace you and forget about you. even though you remember people, some people won;t even bother remembering you. it sounds sad, but the world does not revolve around a specific person.


in this fast paced and demanding society, only the fittest survive. show any signs of weakness and you will be forgotton. what may seem important to you may not be of any significant value to others at all. ultimately, you are alone. motivation must be derived from self. it would be good that people around you can give you motivation, but never ever depend on it. its good to have, but unfortunately, its unreliable. it is a survival tool to be self motivated. don;t expect motivation to fall from the sky. because it will not. people will also not pity you if you are sad. pick yourself up when you fall. you can get help, but it won;t be assured you;ll get help all the time. scream for help if you need too, people will be around, but always remember that the world doesn;t evolve around a specific person. of course, the world does have a moon that accompanies it all the time. but remember that you don;t see the moon everyday. sounds sad, but its a fact of life.

don;t ever try to beg for pity or try to gain sympathy. it may work, but like a drug, its a temporary solution to a long term problem. when you don;t get any sympathy, you feel sad again and its even harder for you to stand up. of course feeling sad is a human feeling and it happens. in fact it must happen. so its normal. but move on.

of course everyone would like to have a good start to everything. but sunday doesn;t happen everyday. it takes time for correction to take place. it also needs opportunity for correction to take place. in this realistic society, you just hope for opportunity to come. "...we have to leave the past, to strive for higher planes..."

what do you think?

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