the cynical one

Friday, April 14, 2006

SOS

In life, sometimes you may feel that the whole world is against you. and whatever you do is always wrong. even if you did what your superiors told you to do, its still wrong. it happens to sometimes. you may feel like you are being driven up to the wall. and there is no one that is going to help you.

Frankly speaking, thats the truth. no one is going to help you. thats because help is not going to fall from the sky. you just have got to open your mouth and ask for help. usually people in this society expects people to help them when they are in trouble. simply because they take people for granted and when no one else helps them, thats where all the whining starts coming from. with some guts and humility asking people for help and some effort put in in your part, the problem can be tackled in a happier way. and it will be solved. people just need to swallow their pride and start asking for help. it doesn;t hurt to ask for help.

as long as you are willing to learn and be helped, there is no reason why no one is going to help you tide over your problems. unless of course that person is a bastard and refuses to help. that is one example of a selfish person and there is simply nothing we can do about it but to live and accept them.

Also the you must of course ask the correct person. you can;t ask a person who is facing the same problem as you. its suicide as it is like the blind leading the blind. and together, everyone will whine together and only increases your problems and frustrations.

just think about it. when you face a problem, do you actually ask for help? or really just pray that someone will help you out and if no one helps you out, do you complain your heart out? and blame your superiors or teachers for giving you undue stress?

what do you think?

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