CAOS

think long term. do not need short term because there are consequences which comes in handy when you think about it in the long run. never let your emotions get the better of you just because at the present moment of time you are unable to tolerate or understand people;s rationale.

tolerating is only a temporary solution. reflecting would only have a lasting effect if you reflect properly and with the correct steps taken to rememdy the situation. you may know what would happen now, but you never know what may happen later. you never know what are the turn of events that could eventually be in your favour.

when stumbled upon a sticky situation, it is always advisable to take a step back and appreciate the situation first. you never know what is coming up. after all, do expect the unexpected. but always always keep your calm. control your emotions and never let it rule your mind.

easier said than done, it doens;t come in with a snap of a finger. but one eventually has to start somewhere and thats for sure.

what do you think?

Dilbert

never trouble trouble until trouble troubles you. to put it bluntly, don;t stir shit when there is no shit. recognise who are you enemies, and who are those powerhouses whom you cannot afford to offend. another word of advice is to be grateful to those who helped you. it is one of the little important things that could make your life easier. sometimes, when you meet into a little trouble, and you realise that it would be better if the trouble was left alone, then by all means leave it alone. certain problems will nautrally settle by itself. however, certain matters you got to address it, but remember, not all matter needs to be address. if it can be left alone then its better to leave it alone.

however, one note of caution is that whenever in doubt always consult and ask. remember saving your ass is just as important. however, if you assess that the problem can be buried without much of a fuss, don;t go and kick up shit for nothing. on the part of being grateful to people who have helped you is important. simple reason being that if they are the powerhouses that controls something or have monopoly over stuffs, its wise not to offend them even if they have sometimes cocked up your plan. or made you a little angry. powerhouses can afford not to have you but you cannot afford to lose them.

thats the power of monopoly. you simply need to suck up to them for help and yes, there is no choice but to be a sucker in this. thats how life isn;t it? either you are the powerhouse, or prepare to bow down to their demands.

however, there are times when you know you cannot meet to their demands. the situation become extremely complex because, you cannot reach to what they want sometimes and you are definitely limited to a certain level and cannot go further. this is where you really need to get down to some sort of compromise. however, if the demands become unreasonable high, then you must also realise that you are human and cannot go any further. meeting the impossible is good, but thats really impossible sometimes. you are definitely human with limited mortal capablities. after you cannot touch the sky with your bare hands standing on your two feet on the ground. the only defence to this diliemma is to throw the ball at someone else;s court. that is to simply ask for help.

calling sos is no big deal unless you got a big deal of pride. pushing the workload to someone is not mean unless one refuses to do the job. helping out means that everyone is working together to increases efficiency, and not to allow one to slack more then the other guy. thats one of the key skills one must pick up.

what do you think?

Crosses II

do not be a hero. when you are in need of help, please ask for the help. of course, everyone wants to be overzealous and tries to solve your own problems. after all when a problem arises, its an opportunity for you to show what you can do and what you are capable of.

however, do not expect it to be pulled off smoothly. there is bound to be something that you would have overlooked. unless you have done the same thing many times over, otherwise, you are sure to have some screw ups here and there.

expect mistakes and don;t be afraid to make it. when a mistake is made, don;t try to be eager to correct it almost immediately. you;ll end up making more mistakes. when something is wrong, take a step back and organise your thoughts again. making a mistake is no doubt bad, but don;t be too eager to make the corrections because that eagerness in you to make the corrections will cloud your common sense. and hence makes things worst.

don;t let what people think of you affect you too. you are human and mistakes and errors are normal. pick yourself up and move on. moving on is very important. whining over spilt milk contributes to nothing but more misery. slow down if you need to but don;t stop. although stopping may be good, but speeding will only contribute to more damage. less reaction time.

be humble and learnt and admit from mistakes. its the first step to recovery. denying and defending only wastes time because in the end nobody is going to listen to your sad story and believe you anyway. so might as well suck it up and be stronger. however, fighting and defending is different. think about it.

what do you think?